She is actually my English student. Bile tulis student mcm budak la plak bunyi nye but actually she is older than me. About 3, 4 years older.
This happen a few months ago, right after she gave birth to her son. Me, hubby n Harris went to visit her at the hospital. Hubby kat luar layan kebuasan Harris tu. Harris ni mana bleh dok diam dlm bilik lama2.
Then baru la kuar girls talk pasal bersalin. She said it was so painful coz the doc had to cut her so that she can deliver the baby on a holiday and her hubby is already there. Doc kata xpayah la hubby dia dtg Beppu lg. My student ni balik kg dia kat Beppu ni utk bersalin. Laki dia keje dekat ngan bandar Fukuoka. Jauh dr kg tempat dia nak bersalin ni.(Jauh pun just 2 hours driving je) So kesimpulanye everything was sooo painful la sbb badan tak prepare utk bersalin lg.
Mase citer2 tu la, I asked her, laki dia ada tak dlm labor room. Dia kata ada tp bile dah sampai satu tahap yg dia dah tak boleh remain clam. Dia suruh laki dia kuar dr bilik. Sgt la pelik. Then I asked why? She said she can't remain normal anymore. Dlm hati I said, tak kan lah minah ni malu kot sbb nak bersalin. But it seem true la. Many Japanese women do not want their hubby to watch them give birth sebab malu menjerit kuat sgt. I mean nak malu ape? Benda camtu kan normal. Sape yg tak menjerit atau meneran mase bersalin? Sometimes I just can't understand them la.....
Well, this is Harris when I gave birth to him.
(Sape yg tak leh tgk darah tu sori la ek)
(Ini ibu mertua ku di depan bilik bersalin.My mom said she cried when she heard me in pain.
My mom is not that crying type....)
(Harris a few mins after delivery)
