She is actually my English student. Bile tulis student mcm budak la plak bunyi nye but actually she is older than me. About 3, 4 years older.
This happen a few months ago, right after she gave birth to her son. Me, hubby n Harris went to visit her at the hospital. Hubby kat luar layan kebuasan Harris tu. Harris ni mana bleh dok diam dlm bilik lama2.
Then baru la kuar girls talk pasal bersalin. She said it was so painful coz the doc had to cut her so that she can deliver the baby on a holiday and her hubby is already there. Doc kata xpayah la hubby dia dtg Beppu lg. My student ni balik kg dia kat Beppu ni utk bersalin. Laki dia keje dekat ngan bandar Fukuoka. Jauh dr kg tempat dia nak bersalin ni.(Jauh pun just 2 hours driving je) So kesimpulanye everything was sooo painful la sbb badan tak prepare utk bersalin lg.
Mase citer2 tu la, I asked her, laki dia ada tak dlm labor room. Dia kata ada tp bile dah sampai satu tahap yg dia dah tak boleh remain clam. Dia suruh laki dia kuar dr bilik. Sgt la pelik. Then I asked why? She said she can't remain normal anymore. Dlm hati I said, tak kan lah minah ni malu kot sbb nak bersalin. But it seem true la. Many Japanese women do not want their hubby to watch them give birth sebab malu menjerit kuat sgt. I mean nak malu ape? Benda camtu kan normal. Sape yg tak menjerit atau meneran mase bersalin? Sometimes I just can't understand them la.....
Well, this is Harris when I gave birth to him.
(Sape yg tak leh tgk darah tu sori la ek)
(Ini ibu mertua ku di depan bilik bersalin.My mom said she cried when she heard me in pain.
My mom is not that crying type....)
(Harris a few mins after delivery)
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Bestnya la kan dan2 lps keluar dpt tgk muka anak. I blh tgk anak 1 a day after delivery. Masa dia keluar trus dorg bawak masuk NICU. Sempat dengar dia teriak sekali n nmpk dia ada kepala, 2 kaki n 2 tgn. Gender F/M pun xtau lg masa tu....her condition was uncertain. Dah la tu, placenta sangkut plakkkkkk........
iskk.. pelik jugak tuu.. patutnya hubby kena ada la selain menguatkan semangat leh la beri keinsafan kat dia tgk betapa pergorbanan wife utk melahirkan zuriat dia... anyway, mahal tau gambar baby baru lahir tu.. saat keemasan yg tak akan berulang!
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CheYah,
Your condition very challenging and thank good your baby is healthy now.
K.Izan,
Tu la kan? Kekadang Jepun ni pelik sket. Even ada org yg tak pernah tunjuk muke tanpa make-up depan laki derang. Sgt lah pelik...
sampai begitu sekali? Mcm tu, maknanya they didn't show their true self to their partners. Lantak pi la nak teriak mcm mana pun, kan? Nama pun beranak. Lagipun, baru lah hubby boley appreciate pengorbanan nak lahirkan anak.
Pelik pelik
Anak I keluar ikut tingkap so takde bab-bab jerit menjerit nih. :P
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Lina,
What I notice la about Japanese ni. Derang ni adalah org yg paling talam dua muka dlm dunia ni. My observation la after 14 years living here.
Yes!U're right Farah..bukan saja 2 muka malah bermuka2..haha!kita pon kena la bermuka2 & bermukabuku gak kan?hoho..
Iskk..mmg suka beno kontrol macho depa nih!bukan per..sok hubby kutuk derang depan mertua ke kengkwan ke malu ler..itu yg lebih utama..pelik kan jepun nih?takut & malu tak bertempat...yg lelaki dok nangis tu takper plak:P..macam2 ada!
bestnyaaaaa sempat ambil gambar.. Qila lepas je keluar trus nurse rushing bawak ke tpt lain sebab dia tanak bernafas.. huhuhu
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